
Author: Connie Kessler
‘R’ Words: Redemption, Restoration, Reconciliation and Relationship
Redemption in literature is classic. Who doesn’t love a heart warming redemptive story? We are drawn to stories that take us from bitter brokenness to vibrant renewal. What novel, or movie comes to mind when you think of redemption? For this theme I think of Victor Hugo’s classic, yet depressingly-dark tale, Les Miserables. There’s The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by CS Lewis which has lots of adventure along with a redemptive climax. Another well known classic journey of redemptive analogy is of course, Pilgram’s Progress by John Bunyan. These stories along with multitudes of others take us to the heart of the human experience. Inspiring rags to riches stories continue to draw our attention. We crave happy endings, even more so if the obstacles along the way have been insurmountable. Observing the determined human spirit overcoming unfavorable, even impossible circumstances has a way of granting hope, however fleeting. The greatest and deepest desire of mankind is that of redemption whether or not it is individually acknowledged.
What is redemption? Simply put, it is the recovery of ownership by paying a price. Redemption is the most crucial theme of the Bible. Once all of creation became corrupted by man’s rebellion God’s plan for His greatest act of love and redemption was set in motion. Unlike the progressive journey of all the other redemptive literature ever written God’s plan does not depend even one iota on the determined spirit of mankind to rescue themselves. God’s provision for our redemption does not require that we pay the price. The price for our redemption is 100 percent paid for by the blood of Jesus Christ, God’s precious son. God’s work of redemption is instant and durable, there is no journey of progression to obtain or determination of self will to retain God’s redemption.
Redemption and restoration are closely interconnected, but not exactly the same. True redemption is dependent solely on God’s provision. Our predicament of willful separation from God has only one solution. We cannot recover good standing with God in spite of our deepest desire or our most sincere effort to do so. God’s plan for our redemption cost Him the precious life of His beloved Son, Jesus Christ. Having bought and paid in full the debt for our liberty we now have the opportunity to be restored into relationship with our Creator. Redemption is a one time act of God. Restoration is the ongoing process that brings us into a cherished, personal, ongoing relationship with our Redeemer.
For many years my husband worked as a painting contractor. He often worked in the restoration of decades old homes that had lost their functionality, charm and beauty. Customers who appreciated the charm of these old houses would purchase their “dream home” fully intending to renovate and modernize the home into a condition even better than the original. These projects were tedious and labor intensive. Several contractors would ply their expertise in the process, plumbers, roofers, electricians, painters and more. However, all of these crews were preceded by the demolition workers who tore out the outdated, useless, ugly, even dangerous elements of the old house. In my husband’s work he would often tear out old stained wall paper and/or scrape and sand off the ugly cracked and peeling paint from years gone by. What would be the point of slapping a coat of paint on top of the decay? It might make the house look okay for a while but the newness would be an illusion, the decay would quickly become evident.
That being an imperfect comparison of God’s work in our lives we can more easily see the process. First of all He redeems us, in a sense buys back ownership of our life with the life of His Son. Within that act of love we become His possession, His sons and daughters. This begins the process of restoring the coveted relationship between the Creator and His creation. Relationship with Him, the restoration of the intimate fellowship that is not only possible between God and man, it is the ultimate prize. This relationship is attainable primarily through God’s work of redemption which leads us to not only cooperate in the work of restoration but to deeply desire it.
Just as an expertly, beautifully restored old home becomes a desirable, comfortable and useful place to live, we then may enjoy a desirable, comfortable and useful relationship with God. The renovated home becomes a testament to the expertise of many skilled laborers. God’s personal work in our individual lives becomes a testimony of His love.
The last ‘R’ word in this list came to me as an after thought, but not really. I have thought about the concept of reconciliation a great deal over the last 5 years or so. Similar to restoration, even quite interchangeable, the word speaks of renewal. (Another ‘R’ word, LOL!) Reconciliation is the English word used in the following passage of Colossians 1; 21, “And you who once were alienated and enemies in your mind by wicked works, yet now He has reconciled.” This relational concept had become very personal to me during an especially difficult time in our marriage.
It came to the point that I felt that the only way we were going to make it was to require a time of separation. I left my husband with the clear motive and desire of bringing about reconciliation. It was so hard to convince him that I still loved him and wanted to be with him. It took several months but he did finally concede to seek help for his addiction, a year and a half later we actually were able to reconcile. I won’t go into anything specific at this time but I really saw the Lord’s hand in teaching us the truth about how sin separates. It separates us from God and it separates us from one another. True love isn’t a cozy touchy-feely kind of emotion. “God demonstrated His love own towards us, in that while we were still sinners, [separated from God] Christ died for us.” Nothing easy or touchy-feely about that. God is truly in the business of redemption, restoration, reconciliation and relationship.
II Corinthians 5:17 -19 makes it clear, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things are passed away; behold, all things have become new. Now all things are of God, who has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation, that is, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not imputing their trespasses to them, and has committed to us the word of reconciliation.”
Words
Words are important, not just spoken words but written words. Which came first, words or concepts? If there is no word for a concept is the concept real? Recently a friend posted on Facebook a question that her nephew asked. “If a person is born deaf, what language do they think in?” In such a case, I wonder if words are not words at all they are concepts. Remember the amazing, true story of blind and deaf Helen Keller, The Miracle Worker? When I first saw that film starring Patty Duke, I thought how impossible it must have felt for Helen to not even understand that there are words to convey concepts. Her only way to communicate was with her behavior which was incorrigible and often violent. Until that miraculous day when her teacher, Annie Sullivan finally got through to her that concepts and realities like water had corresponding words. Annie was then able to teach Helen sign language into the palm of her hand. Under Annie’s tutelage, Helen remarkably learned to vocalize words and even enjoy music! Amazing miracles in the life of Helen Keller.
Helen wrote, “I had no concepts whatever of nature or mind or death or God. I literally thought with my body. Without a single exception my memories of that time are tactile. . . . But there is not one spark of emotion or rational thought in these distinct yet corporeal memories. I was like an unconscious clod of earth. There was nothing in me except the instinct to eat and drink and sleep. My days were a blank without past, present, or future, without hope or anticipation, without interest or joy. Then suddenly, I knew not how or where or when, my brain felt the impact of another mind, and I awoke to language, to knowledge, to love, to the usual concepts of nature, good, and evil. I was actually lifted from nothingness to human life.” Helen Keller, Light in My Darkness
What brought meaning into Helen’s existence? Words. Words didn’t change her reality, she was still, deaf and blind. But words brought her life. The Bible says in the Gospel of John there was no reality without the Word, the Word was in the beginning, without the Word nothing was made. The Word spoke and everything we know as reality came into being. The Word brought light into the darkness. Like the title of Helen Keller’s book Light in My Darkness. The Word then became a human being, in the body of Jesus Christ, God’s precious Son.
There is no wonder why I am fascinated with words. Not just any words but the Word, the Word of God. I am fascinated with the concept of having a relationship with, The Word. The Word of God is alive, it is powerful because He is powerful. Meditating on God’s Word is not the same as picking out a certain word from a passage of scripture and repeating it over and over in your mind. Meditate on the meaning of the word, the concept of the word the reality of the concept. Meditate on the person-hood of the Word of God.
Over the years there have been many Biblical words that have caught my attention, single words and words in phrases. Preachers often go to the original language to pull out greater nuances of words that are found in the passage they are preaching on. I don’t think of myself as a Bible scholar, but I love to learn the etymology of Biblical words. My fascination with words in the Bible has more to do with trying to understand how a specific word or phrase reflects the nature of God. How might this word (the meaning of it, the concept of it, the reality of it) enhance my relationship with God?
Today, I had in mind to write just a paragraph or two on three words. I was going to title this post “R” Words Redemption, Restoration and Relationship. But then I got caught up in the word WORD. Here you have the results. I intend for the next few blog posts to be reflections on several “R” words. However, I have to admit that once I pray that God would guide my words while writing he often takes me in a complete different direction. I love that about writing, letting it take me off into a world of musing. So, which came first, words or concepts? My conclusion, The Word. “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” John 1:1
Stay tuned, and if you are so led, mention it to others who might be interested in the musings of a wannabe writer who aspires to bring glory to God through whatever I write.
The Sensible Shoes
If you enjoy reading novels with a purpose I have really enjoyed reading the Sensible Shoes series of four novels by Sharon Garlough Brown. The story follows four dissimilar women who become fast friends through their individual, yet connected, spiritual journeys. Through various circumstances each one ends up at a life changing spiritual retreat. Strangers joined together at the same table, they begin the undesirable assignment of getting to know one another. Of course, eyeing the others, sizing them up, allocating class and personality type to each one. The speaker, Kathryn facilitates the retreat attendees on a journey of spiritual disciplines.
You will learn for yourself the importance of several spiritual disciplines that will draw you closer in relationship with the Savior. For example the discipline of Lectio Divina, learning to linger, consisting of these four responses to your time in the Word. 1) Listen for a word. 2) Ponder that one word. 3) Begin a conversation with God. 4) Simply rest in His presence.
If you are new to the concept of spiritual disciplines, you will find enlightenment on several levels. I’m sure there are any number of disciplines within the Christian faith. I learned several in my time at Bible school, prayer, Bible study, giving, having daily devotions or a quiet time. The first book, Sensible Shoes, begins with a discipline I had never heard of, walking a labyrinth as a spiritual pathway. After reading about a labyrinth as a spiritual walk, I set out to find one and try it out. My conclusion is there’s much ado about nothing; walking on a labyrinth, a mountain trail, along a shady stream, or even a dusty cow trail will all do about the same thing as long as you are in communion with God.
See where these four ladies travel on their journeys, taking one through divorce, another through cancer, another through the derailment of lifelong goals and the fourth through an unwanted sabbatical. Join Meg, Hannah, Mara and Charissa as they experience life as we are all encouraged by our brother James, “My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trial, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have it’s perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.” James 1:2-4
The Sensible Shoes Series: Sensible Shoes, Two Steps Forward, Barefoot and An Extra Mile By Sharon Garlough Brown